How to Find Time To Write (Even If You Think You’re Too Busy)

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If my dog can find time to break into a laundry basket and chew three different pairs of underwear in one day, you can find the time to write.  

A little while ago, I received an ad for a writer’s conference. It had beautiful, glossy photos of a  resort where writers gathered and dedicated a full weekend to nothing but scribbling words down onto paper.

Even though there was no way I could go, I began to long for a weekend where all I had to do was write. I am somebody who loves language, but I’ll admit that it’s hard to fit a literary life into a busy schedule.

When you’re a student, your life sort of works like this…

Things I would like: Getting enough sleep, getting good grades, getting writing done, getting reading done.

Now pick one.

I don’t know what scheduling is like after high school, but I’m going to take a wild guess and say it only gets busier. A lot busier.

This makes finding time to write difficult, but not impossible. Time will not magically appear for you to write. There will never be a 25th hour that descends from the heavens wearing a halo and brandishing a pen, declaring itself, “The Writer’s Hour.”

And if you have a life-long dream of writing a book, and are just waiting for some more time to do so- I hate to be the one to burst your bubble, but that time is never going to materialize. Finding time to write is a daily, active process. It requires your dedication just like any passion and yes, job, that you might have.

So here are some actual, legitimate ways to make room in your schedule for writing.

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#1.

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No, unfortunately singing “Say No To This,” from Hamilton will not give you more time to write. But you know what will? Saying no to other things. Now, I’m not saying you should pull a Thoreau on all social engagements. But, in the words of the flawless queen known as J.K Rowling,

“Be ruthless about protecting writing days, i.e., do not cave in to endless requests to have ‘essential’ and ‘long overdue’ meetings on those days.”

It’s okay to tell friends that you can’t attend events or hang out, especially if you already planned to write that day. I’ve often had friends tell me that they can’t make a sleepover because they had work in the morning, which we have accepted as a perfectly logical excuse. However, writing is also work. (A lot of work.) So if you can’t make every club meeting or every PTA fair and you start to feel guilty, repeat to yourself, “I’m working.” Do not feel guilty about protecting something so dear to you.

#2.

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If I put something on a to-do list, I am much more likely to get it done. Create goals for your writing, and plan out how much work you will have to do in a certain week, month, or year to achieve that goal. I just started using mywritingclub, which is really helpful for setting goals! Have any of you heard about it? I read about it on the wonderful Writer’s Faith blog. It has features such as built-in word sprints, the ability to encourage friends, and charts to show your goal progress. You can add me as a friend – my username is vivian_parkin_derosa.

I also use a traditional paper planner to plan my specific daily writing goals.

#3.

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All of it. Goodbye Instagram, Snapchat, Pinterest – stop looking at those mason jars! – the news, Facebook, your favorite blogs, and yes, even WordPress. You have no idea how much time you spend on these things. For every ten minutes that you spend scrolling through Instagram photos of people you only followed because they followed you, you could have written another 300 words on your manuscript. Maybe more, if you’re a fast writer.

This isn’t to say you can’t ever go on the internet. (It’s a brilliant place to find inspiration, after all.)  But most definitely NOT during designated writing time, and I would recommend trying to quit for one half of the day. When you have a spare minute in the morning, instead of reaching for your phone, reach for your computer. Or if you’re more productive at night, instead of scrolling through Facebook before you go to bed, try writing a poem.

And if you’re truly dedicated for getting more time to write, give yourself days where you quit media entirely. You won’t believe all the time you suddenly have on your hands.

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Okay, so I did an entire blog post about making the perfect writing workspace, and my writing desk is featured on my Instagram. And when you’re able to schedule an hour at home to write, or you’re a writer who works from home, a writer’s desk is essential to have. But there are days (and weeks, and months, and sometimes years) when you do not have a full hour at home to schedule for writing.

That’s okay. Forget the desk.

Invest in a laptop or journal, something portable, so you can bring your writing with you wherever you go. Writing on the bus in the morning is how I finished my rough draft. Public transportation is the perfect place to get some work done. So are your schools and offices. If you have time in your day to write, do so, even if you’re not in your usual space.

#5

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I just saw the movie Paterson, which is about a bus driver in Paterson, New Jersey who writes poetry. (It’s an excellent movie, one I would highly recommend!) There’s one small, repeated scene that really stuck with me. The driver, who is coincidentally also named Paterson, pulls up the bus to the edge of the parking garage each morning and waits for somebody to check off his bus and wave him into the street. Now, the time between him pulling the car up and him being seen by a supervisor is short and slim, a minute or two at best. But each time, he whips out a notebook and starts working on a poem. This movie reminded me of something important: Literally every minute counts.

You don’t need a $5,000 writer’s conference to actually have time to write. You need the twenty-minute morning bus ride to school to flesh out a novel scene. You need the five minutes that it takes for your sister to get ready before you leave to finish your plot outline. You need the three minutes that’s left in the period after you finish taking a test to write a Haiku.

Take advantage of every minute in your day. Write during your lunch break. Write when people are talking about something you don’t care about. If you’re playing fetch with your dog, write a sentence while they’re chasing the stick. (Unless you’re playing fetch with my dog, who doesn’t know how fetch works. There is no chasing of sticks, only him barking at me as I wave a branch in his face because he thinks it’s food.)

In order to find more time for your writing, allow yourself to believe in a greater concept of time. All those little minutes add up, and what they have the power to create is extraordinary.

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Thank you Mahriya from My Bookish Life for designing my sign off ❤ Until next time, you can find me on Pinterest or Instagram.

36 thoughts on “How to Find Time To Write (Even If You Think You’re Too Busy)

  1. Katie Rivera says:

    This is so true! You HAVE to make time to write. I spent all of my high school years thinking “Oh I’ll just wait until this summer and then write because I’ll have the time!” And I didn’t even do it then. I never finally buckled down to write until last year, at the end of my junior year in college. And you know how I did it? By MAKING TIME. It just has to be a priority, or you’ll never get it done! (even when you have the time!)

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    • vivianparkinderosa says:

      So true! I’m in high school now, and sometimes I push off projects to the summer…the summer always seems like a long time, but it’s never long enough to finish the projects I was too lazy to do in the school year! If I want to finish a writing project, i have to work on it now. 🙂

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  2. May Everly says:

    It is SO hard to find time to write again! But YES OMG THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS POST VIVIAN! I’ve been having LOTS of troubling making time for writing, and this helped SO MUCH! I definitely should try #3–I spend so much time doing blog-related stuff, it’s just… AGH. And why CAN’T we sing “Say No To This”? 😛 And haha, I’ve been having to make schedules every day so I don’t get off task. 😛 I should make a writing schedule too!

    And #5 is so. true. We have to be efficient with our time, because we don’t know when it’s going to run out. Thank you SO MUCH for this AMAZING post! 😀 ❤

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      • May Everly says:

        😀 And I’ve actually been making a writing schedule with goals for each day, and it’s really helping me! Of course, I still procrastinate and don’t fulfill the goals to the max, but I’m still doing something every day! (TELL ME HOW TO SAY NO TO THIS)

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  3. Dirck says:

    The only thing there I’d moderate is “turn off the internet.” I only got four pages written yesterday during What-Other-People-Call-Lunch Hour, because I had to dig into some online research to make sure I wasn’t saying something stupid about western Canada of the 1880s, rather than the usual six(ish). Certainly, one needs to exercise iron discipline to not then turn to the entertaining, social aspects of the ‘net, but just shutting down the browser entirely seems like locking away a useful writing tool.

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  4. Jo Smith says:

    Great tips, it’s often hard to write when you’re busy. One question: what do you use to design your graphics for your blog? Like the “search” and “top posts”.

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  5. smudgedthoughts says:

    THIS. SO MUCH THIS.

    Seriously, this is beautifully accurate, and I need this post SOOO much. I’ve been writing a blog post for the past two hours, so I’m pretty tired of writing, but I’m determined to get some of my book whipped out before I crash and burn tonight, lol!

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  6. Lana says:

    Good post! I definitely need to work on using every little minute, especially since I often think I need 30 minutes to actually get something done, but I should really be working on my writing all of the time…thanks for the tips! 😀

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  7. Saanvi says:

    This was such an awesome post. I’ll definitely use your ideas to get my writing work finished. After all, time won’t appear magically, time has to be taken out and made for writing. 🙂

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